I can just see my fellow ladies now like "girl you don’t know what you’re talking about, of course there is". But let’s look at it this way. Boy, Single or Committed, Attractive enough to step outside with, so what’s the problem? Boys only get put in the friend zone for their own plain stupidity! She’s given you her number and not offered to take yours so heck you know she’s feeling you at least a little bit. But then you guys start talking and you have NO SWAG! You’re a grown ass man, how are you going to be asking, “what’s your favorite colour?” this is not year 9! Pshh friend zone. There’s nothing wrong with tryna get to know her but let’s keep it new.
Assuming you pass the initial phone/bbm test, you get to take her out somewhere and then because you’re SHY you never even tried to hold her hand? Don’t let Diana King fool you, we don’t like players but shy guys are the worst! Stop hurting your chances by being so damn scared! I'm pretty sure we don't bite *eyelashes* Girls like to feel pretty & in control. Hold that damn hand, if she rejects you at least you tried & chances are she’d be talking about you to her girlies. (she’s thinking of you!)
Thinking that becoming ‘besties’ first would give you guaranteed access to the box. Unless you already know she’s in love with you don’t even try it. Do you really want to hear stories about all the guys chasing her? Or have to follow her shopping to pick something for her latest guy? If you like her let it show because chances are by the time you admit to liking her she’d be creeped out by it because you’re a ‘brother’ to her. (Light bulb, new blog topic!) Obviously there are just some boys with exceptional bad luck and some girls with extraordinary will power but this is nothing that a few shots of tequila wouldn’t fix ;)
